Saturday, September 7, 2019

St. Cuthbert's Way Day Four: Second Chances


            Walking takes you out of your well-ordered, cozy comfort zone and throws random events at you like confetti or like a sun shower.  Sometimes those events take on a kind of pattern that can suggest destiny or some sort of moral about the way life is.  Two quick examples.  On my first day of walking, the way wound along the River Tweed for a few miles.  The water moved rapidly and my pace quickened, too, despite having to push my way through dense clusters of fireweed.  I slowed only for pleasant exchanges with trout fisherman and local dog walkers.  I stopped for several minutes though when I ran into two middle-aged ladies standing still in the middle of the path admiring a very beautiful butterfly.  Its wings were orange with accents of violet, but the stand-out feature were the four circles that looked like open eyes with blue and purple irises around black centers.  The women were marveling at how close the creature allowed them to get, and they were taking pictures with their phones.  I joined the group, but when I tried to bend down and position my phone to get the best possible shot, the water bottle I’d been carrying in one hand slipped, fell, and frightened the butterfly away.  I was annoyed at myself for being such a klutz.  Weirdly, by the end of that first long day, another of the same kind of butterfly was basking on a leaf just waiting for me to eye him.  I felt like the recipient of two blessings:  a second chance to see the same kind of butterfly and a message from the world at large.  Nothing is final or over.  Life circles around.  Flit from beauty to beauty and you will have chances to correct, to see better, to understand.  There was that.  Then, this.  I woke up in Wooler and before beginning my walk, I ducked into St. Mary’s Church to see a photo exhibit on spirituality and landscape which I enjoyed very much.  Someone had done what I was doing—collecting stones, leaves, and grasses and writing love letters to woods, hills, water, dark skies.  The nice things distinguished men said about landscape and walking, men like John Muir, Albert Einstein, Henry David Thoreau, and Robert Louis Stevenson were printed on cards around the church.  When I’d had my fill of looking, I lifted my eyes to hills visible through the lead-paned glass, and in a petal-shaped panel, there was Robin!  What is the world telling me?  Will he be in my future?  Whether or not, I knew I’d be bumping into him and his companions on the trail, and I would have to balance solitude with sociability.  Even trickier, I’d have the chance to feel things and maybe even express my feelings.



            The mix of clouds and sun, of moorlands and farmlands, of fern, heather, and gorse, of naked hills and darker pine plantations sliding down them was a feast for the eyes.  I felt happy and free and walked Weetwood Moor alone, seeing no one, save for a couple of Russian girls wearing flimsy rain ponchos that the wind whipped around their heads.  They were looking for the ancient stones said to be hiding in the heather, cup and ring-marked rocks, and they had a lap top out that they were using to navigate.  They didn’t seem to be on any Way but were out only to find these particular stones.  We spoke briefly and I climbed over a stile and went on.   All was peace.  The rain in the air made the distances misty, and I gave little thought to my worries about the men or anyone else.  My mind was on Cuthbert and answering the question posed by the exhibit, “how does it feel to walk in the footsteps of the Northern Saints.”  How does it feel?  What can we learn about Cuthbert’s life by walking the hills he walked, leaning on the good shepherd and even the sheep, having visions, feeling the tension between the bliss of solitude and the need to serve.



            Eventually, I saw the group of men in the yellow distance, and slowly I began to rely on them for direction.  My attention slackened and my thoughts turned to Robin.  Then they paused by a gate, considering the way, and I caught up with them.  We chatted about the Russians and began to move forward.  Once I’d joined them, I stopped trying to find my own way, and, funnily enough we all got lost.  A missed turn took us out onto paved roads and we wound up walking an extra mile or two.  Some of the time, I walked with Robin, chatting about teaching and writing and walking.  He grew bored or felt he needed to stay with his group, and I found myself talking to and walking with a 70-some retired Danish vet, Ed.  This was not the way I wanted to walk.  I missed my own ruminations.  I missed the company of the plants and animals.  I told the guys that I’d stay with them until we found the way.  Once we did, I said goodbye and bolted ahead.  My attempt to talk to Robin had failed.  I felt my spirits flag, and, worse, I felt my mind turn onto the familiar road of self-criticism:  not attractive, not clever, not  not not.  Negativity.  But the physical act of walking and looking brought me back to my own natural buoyancy.  I quickly forgot about Robin and the rest, and I took the incident as a lesson about not giving up on oneself and not becoming a follower.  Followers get lost literally, and, worse, they lose the joy of the Way.



            The destination of the day was Cuthbert’s cave.  This is the one stop on the route associated with Cuthbert’s life.  Legends are contradictory:  one suggests that Cuthbert used the cave during his young life as a shepherd and another one claims that the monks, who carried his body away from the coast when Vikings invaded, stopped in the cave to rest.  The cave is eroded from a cliff of yellow sandstone, and it is set uphill in an ancient pine forest.  A line of pines across the top of the cave look like sentries or angels.  There was an English couple around the cave taking pictures and a picnicking family with kids bicycled up to it, but since I had no acquaintance with these people, they did not trouble me.  I explored around the cave and then remembered my host in the Wooler B & B said to be sure to scramble up the rock outcrop behind the cave for the view of where you’ve come from and where you are going.  I did.  Ferns and heather beyond the woods.  A wire fence.  Stiles.  Finally, bare rock.  On top, there was a view of the sea!!!  And I could actually see the tiny little “sand-castle” looking thing on a tongue of land.  Lindisfarne!  I was surprised at how close I was to the ocean.  From here, it looked like just a couple of fields away.  Charcoal smudges in the distance suggested rain.  But nothing could dampen my spirits up there on the high rocks looking at the blue water melting into the blue air—and Lindisfarne!  I felt free and joyful. 



Heading back to the cave, descending along the wood path, there were the guys, leaning against the boulder in front of the gaping mouth.  They were eating and drinking.  I guess this was their lunch stop.  I waved and approached.  One of the Danes offered me a capful of liqueur, and I slugged it back and asked for more.  Robin offered me a granola bar and, when I complained about being almost out of battery power, he pulled out a solar cell and offered to “give me power.”  It was a light and sociable meeting.  “Mary Jo …,” began Robin, “I’ve been wondering why the monks would carry around a Cuthbert’s dead body.”  His other question involved a misunderstanding of the place of the monastery in the community, “how could the monks think it was okay for the local population to support their life on contemplation?”  did they?  That was not my understanding.  I thought that monasteries were highly entrepreneurial and good for the community.  Maybe I was wrong.  But I was still chewing over Robin’s question of yesterday, “Wasn’t Cuthbert a very extreme person?”  Disagreement stimulated thought.  Conversation pushed me to think harder and opened up byways of thought that I needed to explore.  Mostly though, it stimulated me to want to present my own views intelligibly and beautifully to others.  The meeting was warm and filling.  Photos were taken.  They wanted to photograph me.  One of the Danes noted with satisfaction that having reached the cave, they had accomplished the purpose of the day; and his remark forced me to pause and to assent.  I, too, had had a glimpse of the under glimmer of things:  the inside of the rock, yes, but also the joy that is possible in sharing, even simple food and drink and ideas, with complete strangers.  They took the high road and I went back to the Way, reluctant to become just a follower.  But I still got momentarily lost—confused by my interest in them and their direction, and I had to make my way through a field of animals and climb a fence that wasn’t in the book.  But when I found the path and read that I was to turn left at a fork “signed Holburn,” I knew that the men ahead of me, who’d turned right, were once again, off course. 



            Walking alone toward the village, I felt that I had taken a big step forward in personal growth.  I had joined a human group (accepted an invitation) and also remained on my own Way.  Did Cuthbert experience the same tensions that I experienced?  I wondered. He was a gregarious jokester of a youth who was told by a child that he had to straighten up.  He went into a monastic community but sought places of solitude by walking to far-flung communities to preach.  Eventually, he retreated to Lindisfarne (Aidan’s island), and from there, he went further and further out to sea:  to Cuthbert’s island (a sand bar off Lindisfarne) and, finally, to Farne where angels helped him build a high-walled cell.  He was called off Farne, out of isolation, to become a Bishop.  Very reluctantly, he agreed.  His stint as Bishop lasted only two years.  This was definitely not a man who was “extreme.”  His was a human life of paradoxes, pulls in contradictory directions, and accommodations.  What about love?  I wonder what Cuthbert did with his human desires.

            He had friendships with several noblewomen who were also Abbesses of local convents.  The princess, Ebbe, was one such.  She invited Cuthbert to Coldingham, located on the coast just norther of what today is the Scottish border.  The monastery at Coldingham housed both men and women and, due to the noble backgrounds of the members, it was a place for eating, drinking, and entertainment.  I’ve read that the monks and nuns in this place were very lax and worldly.  This place was the setting for one of Cuthbert’s most iconic miracles.  At night, he walked down to the sea (perhaps to get away from the partying), immersed himself up to his neck and began to pray and sing psalms in the sea as waves rose up but didn’t swallow him up.  When he came up on shore in the morning, otters bounded out of the sea and rubbed themselves all over Cuthbert’s feet to dry them.  Miracle?

            After the day I’d had, I felt I understood Cuthbert’s desire for immersion in nature as an antidote to the aches and pains human life causes, and I wondered if he, too, felt compromised by his own experience of desire.  Perhaps he was attracted to Ebbe.  Perhaps he was tempted by the luxuries of her monastery.  From the hilltop, the sea looked so close, but the walk along hedgerows and through patches of forest in rain and mud to Fenwick (Fennick) was joyful.  Before the rain came, down in the grass before me, was the orange butterfly with eyes.  Second chances.  I bent down to marvel and looked right into those eyes.  Back home in America I find a “Butterflies of Scotland” website and learn the name for it: “Peacock butterfly.”  The site includes legends about butterflies and notes that some people believe eyes on butterflies means they are “God’s spies.”  I understand that, but what I jotted down in the tiny notebook tucked into my money belt was this:  “if we open all the eyes of our senses, we can fly.”




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